Am I Too Rigid To My Boy??

One evening, my boy came running down from the bathroom upstairs, naked.  He was in tears and blood was oozing from one of his fingers.  Apparently, he was in shower when he accidentally knocked my bottle of foundation, it fell on the floor and broke.  He cut his finger when trying to clear the glass on the bathroom floor. The first thing that blurted out from his mouth when he saw me was:  Mommy, I broke your make-up bottle, are you sad with me,  looking at me with a terribly sorry expression on his face,  his hands still holding the other hand with the cut finger still oozing out blood...  He sighed a big relief when I told him it didn't matter at all.  He then told me how worried he was when he broke the bottle, fearing I would get upset with him.  He only felt the  sting of pain on his finger when I asked him.  My eyes teared to see him like this.

What saddened me the most, he cares so much for my feeling when he makes a mistake and that includes when he is in pain.  I should be happy that I raise a loving son but I AM NOT.   Why can't he react like what most kids do, to cry his lungs out first when he is in pain and not to bother about clearing the mess and others' feelings, at least that should come later..  

Am I raising a kid who on earth only cares how others feel and not himself?  Am I raising a kid who doesn't have a mind of his own and only cares to please others?  Am I too inflexible in parenting my boy and thus raising a boy with 'easily give-in' character?  How can he survive in this cruel world when he gives in so easily without even putting up a fight?  I know I think too much........