tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post6454666860464943110..comments2024-03-24T08:20:51.255+08:00Comments on Inspired Momx1: Nothing Is Perfect & Everything Is PerfectUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-92048054605386650112010-10-14T15:15:30.717+08:002010-10-14T15:15:30.717+08:00Fei Mui: Wuakakaka.... I learned from mistake and...Fei Mui: Wuakakaka.... I learned from mistake and you are my guinea pig lo...Inspired Momx1https://www.blogger.com/profile/00541014881204903591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-27642800190003973222010-10-14T11:16:51.942+08:002010-10-14T11:16:51.942+08:00Unfair to me!!! Why until now only you realized??...Unfair to me!!! Why until now only you realized??? :peng enghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15228630962441295750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-63783499456657807962010-09-30T17:13:25.579+08:002010-09-30T17:13:25.579+08:00I am still learning too!! Learn how to be more pat...I am still learning too!! Learn how to be more patience towards my boys and how to "let go" and not always so stress. I remember when they just start got homework, everytime i feel stress, and i will yell yell yell..i think few blocks away also can hear my screaming. Now i learn take a deep breathe explain and explain to them, try to act cool, but most oft he time i still fail. :(<br /><br />I know how you feel, you know what, i also had difficulty to conceive for 7 years, end up i go for IVF, that explain how i get my twin boys. :)<br /><br />You did a good job, give yourself a pat on the shoulder. :)Annie Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16961122137043440982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-81726924030034275572010-09-28T13:36:02.104+08:002010-09-28T13:36:02.104+08:00Ok..i guess i have to learn from you too..learning...Ok..i guess i have to learn from you too..learning to be patience...i guess it really take lot of effort and determinationYee Linghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12017254734772466742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-53122773040737866062010-09-27T01:21:55.889+08:002010-09-27T01:21:55.889+08:00om goodnes! I am also like that, very perfectionis...om goodnes! I am also like that, very perfectionist and cannot bear standards below expectation. Vic shuts down too when under stress, and I know it, but I don't give in... how old is your son now? He looks so different from your profile pic. <br /><br />Well, God bless. I hope I learn some patience too, and more love.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08258163158330408833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-12393980248016413642010-09-23T22:38:59.636+08:002010-09-23T22:38:59.636+08:00yes..agreed with you.. i always tell myself.. whil...yes..agreed with you.. i always tell myself.. while kids are learning, we as parents are also learning as well.. every phase of life is different.. from young till old, i guess we will still be learning ... :)Reanaclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01716477622054835019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-31785894505067474992010-09-23T00:02:31.060+08:002010-09-23T00:02:31.060+08:00Good saying! I'm sorry to hear that what you h...Good saying! I'm sorry to hear that what you had gone through, and glad that you enjoy your parenting now!;)<br /><br />To me imprefection is beauty, kids grow more vibrant on their own pace!^-^ Happy Mid Autumn to you and have a ncie day ahead!Alice Lawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04771321722368712404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-86077887860487676912010-09-22T17:34:20.340+08:002010-09-22T17:34:20.340+08:00Thank you for this beautiful post. I yell and thre...Thank you for this beautiful post. I yell and threathen Gwen too when her homework is not up to my expectation. I'm learning to be more patient now. <br /><br />Happy Mid Autumn Festival to You and Your Family! You are a great mum. :)Mummy Gwenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17114819720644461121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-12430886761852849672010-09-22T00:11:02.183+08:002010-09-22T00:11:02.183+08:00i like this post. Because it sounds so familiar. M...i like this post. Because it sounds so familiar. Me too, a perfectionist, especially towards my children. I would yell at my kids when they failed my expectation. That's why i am going to the Di Zi Gui parenting class now, I hope i can have more patient when educating my children now.Yanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11047621739104949653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-50509757131999164402010-09-21T18:25:20.615+08:002010-09-21T18:25:20.615+08:00If a child lives with criticism,
He learns to con...If a child lives with criticism, <br />He learns to condemn<br />If a child lives with hostility <br />He learns to fight<br /><br />If a child lives with ridicule, <br />He learns to be shy<br /><br />If a child lives with shame, <br />He learns to feel guilty<br /><br />If a child lives with tolerance, <br />He learns to be patient<br /><br />If a child lives with encouragement, <br />He learns confidence<br /><br />If a child lives with praise, <br />He learns to appreciate<br /><br />If a child lives with fairness, <br />He learns justice<br /><br />If a child lives with security, <br />He learns to have faith<br /><br />If a child lives with approval, <br />He learns to like himself<br /><br />If a child live with acceptance and friendship, <br />He learns to find love in the worldsuituapuihttp://suituapui.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-34428475744823526692010-09-21T18:10:36.264+08:002010-09-21T18:10:36.264+08:00Undeniably, we all want the best for our child, so...Undeniably, we all want the best for our child, so occasionally we do make mistake.<br />I think you are doing great.Shenny's mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10205907934727046892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-11177149401791963312010-09-21T16:56:54.791+08:002010-09-21T16:56:54.791+08:00I think ur a good mommy =) at least u know ur mist...I think ur a good mommy =) at least u know ur mistakes and u learn from them... I know of some mommies proudly proclaiming to me about how they 'trained' (i call it torture) their kids and that I should do the same for my baby too... *sweat* =_="YANZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09380837706868255916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-81903584365406401302010-09-21T14:27:53.418+08:002010-09-21T14:27:53.418+08:00As a mother myself, I'm learning everyday too....As a mother myself, I'm learning everyday too. Learn to control my bad temper, talk nicely with the kids and guide them properly rather than becoming a mad women myself. You are doing great there.mNhLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13884723664598214588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-32590708725585346092010-09-21T14:00:37.051+08:002010-09-21T14:00:37.051+08:00Because you have been waiting for a child for so l...Because you have been waiting for a child for so long, not your fault to expect the best from your son. But children is children, children always playful.Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12506588641380827390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-43778220156596397922010-09-21T09:55:56.665+08:002010-09-21T09:55:56.665+08:00Well, it is all because we are parent, always want...Well, it is all because we are parent, always wanting to have the best for our children, but you know something,as the children grow older,we need to learn to let go a bit here and there,letting them to find their own footing.<br /><br />I have my 13 years old boy,have so much of problem dealing with him, on a hindsight now i realized,i must let him find his own identity and not the one i want to give him.<br /><br />so,i let him argue with me now,speak his minds out, get angry with me sometimes, on top of that we always settle the score by saying " I love you" to each other.<br /><br />take care nowAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05232858719879449643noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-18302468807054881892010-09-21T09:40:50.200+08:002010-09-21T09:40:50.200+08:00this is a lovely post. we all want what's bes...this is a lovely post. we all want what's best for our children :) you are a great mommy :)mommy to chumsyhttp://chumsyashley.infonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-77154455443204648182010-09-21T09:33:23.366+08:002010-09-21T09:33:23.366+08:00u're really a wonderful mother ! :Du're really a wonderful mother ! :DCarolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15574627256871405084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2300397536361928008.post-19469711827308690592010-09-21T08:21:44.041+08:002010-09-21T08:21:44.041+08:00Patience is a virtue every mother needs and I am s...Patience is a virtue every mother needs and I am still searching for it. :Pmumsgatherhttp://mumsgather.comnoreply@blogger.com